Getting Married

I'm getting a little bit tired of people asking me: Are you getting cold feet? Are you nervous? Are you excited?
I guess there are a lot of rituals and stories built up around this moment, so I forgive them. I think people just say what they think they're supposed to say.

Generally, I just say congratulations and leave it at that.
If I were to ask anything, I would ask: "do you love her?" or, since I already know the answer to that, "how do you feel?"

To be continued...